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Thursday, October 19

Steak and Blow Jobs

Sunday is The Producer's 31st birthday. I’m at a serious loss for how to handle this. The facts: We’ve been hanging out for three months and refer to our situation as “dating.” Not exclusive, just dating. Lately, we've been spending about 2-3 night a week together. We email throughout the day. Talk/text each evening. Recently, I attended a wedding as his guest and we embarked upon our first road trip.

How in the world should I acknowledge his birthday?

My guy friends joke that the only gift a man ever wants is a steak and a blow job. Okay, that’s pretty much a given – it being his birthday and all.

It is too soon to be making these decisions... I'm thinking dinner. perhaps a place a tad nicer than the usual Italian fare that we frequent. Or perhaps, I should take him to what's quickly becoming "our restaurant".

Three months and a gal shouldn’t be making decisions like this...

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UPDATE:

Genius! I just purchased two tickets to this haunted house as a birthday gift. Next week on date night, I'll treat him to dinner around 8pm, where we will have our fill of wine. Then post dinner, with a good buzz on, we can stop by the haunted house on our way home. Totally fun. Completely casual. Added bonus: Haunted houses give you lots of excuses for "I'm so frightened" touching.

(I sure hope this goes over better than the pedicure I forced him into on our last date.)

3 Comments:

At 11:56 AM, Blogger Irish Red said...

EEEWWW - tough call. I think that dinner is good. Somthing cute like making him cookies is also good or concert tickets?

Anything low key works :)

 
At 4:46 PM, Blogger Chris said...

Come to our Blow Job workshop on the 24th for free as my guest. Just in case you want to make that birthday blow job extra special.

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At 11:09 PM, Blogger jo said...

food is always good. as long as it's nothing too over the top i suppose. you don't really wanna scare him after 3 months.

 

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